Academic

May 4, 2024

1. What was their home life like?

A deep and rich family culture emanated from the parents.

Dietrich’s mother, Paula Bonhoeffer, was “the soul and spirit of the house.” She was an educator and homeschooled the children until they were 8 or 9 years old. She cared deeply about training her children in academic and critical thinking. She also gave them a firm foundation in biblical thinking. She taught them the fundamentals of Christian faith, spurred them intellectually, and created family traditions. She came from a lineage of pastors and theologians, but her faith was highly personal and practical. She believed in a faith that was evident in daily life.

Karl Bonhoeffer, the father, spurred the family intellectually. He was at the head of his field in Germany, holding a chair position at the University and also director of the hospital for nervous diseases. He was both highly logical and intellectual, but interestingly also had “a genuine respect for the limits of reason.” Despite his own numerous accomplishments, he taught his family to value humility and simplicity.

He fully supported his wife’s training and teaching of their children in Christian life. Karl also shaped the types of thinking and communicating in the Bonhoeffer house. “There was a strong atmosphere in his home against fuzzy thinking” AND sloppy speech. If the children had something they wanted to say, they were expected to say it, but with carefully chosen words. He expected well thought out answers and respectful discourse at all times. The children “loved and respected him in a way that made them eager to gain his approval…”

Together, the Bonhoeffer parents were a force to be reckoned with. They had a solid marriage (they were apart less than a month their entire 50 years of marriage), they each brought their personal and professional strengths into their home, and they also used humor. They had high expectations of their children, but also showed kindness and fair judgment. Their heritage cultivated a rich family culture: “The family trees of Karl & Paula Bonhoeffer are… so laden with figures of accomplishment that one might expect future generations to be burdened by it all. But the welter of wonderfulness that was their heritage seems to have been a boon, one that buoyed them up so that each child seems not only to have stood on the shoulders of giants, but also to have danced on them.”

But, the house was NOT always serious!

The parents gave the children younger years of wholesome, free FUN. They dug caves, climbed trees, put up tents, and played in the garden. They skated on a makeshift ice rink their father made for them in the yard. They changed an outbuilding into a zoo and created a room in the house for a museum of their nature collections and another for a workshop.

Music was an important part of the Bonhoeffer family culture. Their children, especially Dietrich, arranged and composed. They were “a deeply musical family” and held “musical evenings” each Saturday night. On these ritual evenings, which went on for many years, each child had to present something. They invited family and friends and gave performances for special occasions like birthdays, going away parties, or holidays.

Connection was highly valued. Family members and friends visited often, and Dietrich remained so close to his parents and family that he called them often. He consulted his parents before big decisions throughout his life.

“The Bonhoeffers were that terribly rare thing: a genuinely happy family…”

2. What was their education like?

It’s difficult to distinguish descriptions of the Bonhoeffer home from the Bonhoeffer education because they were so inextricably intertwined. They received a diverse mix of formal AND informal education that taught them to think academically, critically, and biblically.

Homeschooling & Classical Education

The Bonhoeffer children were homeschooled in their early years. Paula was “openly distrustful of the German public schools and their Prussian educational methods” and believed that she should care for them during their earliest years. While at home they memorized poems, hymns, folk songs, created plays, performed puppet theater, and dived deeply into topics of their own interest.

Later, the children attended a local school that used a classical education model. A classical education is based on a three part model that builds upon a child’s learning capacity over time. The early years are spent absorbing information and laying the foundation for advanced studies. The middle school years focus on logic and argument, and in high school the focus is rhetoric–learning to express themselves through writing and speaking with excellence and originality. A classical education views all knowledge as interrelated and works to integrate different subject matters. This philosophy heavily emphasizes history, and highlights ancient Greek and Roman cultures due to their prolific influence on the modern world. Classical education even stems from these cultures, where thinkers like Aristotle and Plato taught that education should develop the whole person, including moral virtues and intellect. The school the Bonhoeffer children attended learned classical history, art, literature, and even used pictures of the Roman forum for classroom decoration.

The values of a classical education were matched in the Bonhoeffer home. Close mindedness wasn’t tolerated–they came to decisions based on evidence and thoughtful discussion. They were also taught to control their emotions: “Emotionalism, like sloppy communication, was thought to be self-indulgent.” Both parents modeled a sense of perspective, of staying cool and not emotionally reacting to a new thought or point of view. They didn’t ascribe to a single political viewpoint, they “seemed to have the best of what we might today think of as conservative AND liberal values, of traditional AND progressive ones.”

Biblical Thinking & Daily Christian Living

All of the Bonhoeffer children were educated in biblical thinking and daily Christian living. The Bonhoeffer’s Christianity was “mostly of the homegrown variety.” Their normal, everyday life included bible readings and hymn singing. Paula taught the children to revere God’s word, and tried to read bible stories straight from the actual text, only using illustrated children’s versions for an occasional picture. Her faith was also evident in the values that she and her husband cultivated: “Exhibiting selflessness, expressing generosity, and helping others were central to the family culture.”

Their mother’s faith “spoke for itself, it lived in actions and was evident in the way she put others before herself and taught her children to do the same. There was no place for false piety or any king of bogus religiosity in our home.” Her influence on Dietrich’s theology and walk with God was so profound that Metaxis suggests that Dietrich’s famous idea of “cheap grace” may have originated in her humble example.

Essentially, the Bonhoeffer’s taught their family the basic tenets of the Christian faith AND how to live them out practically. The same intellectual culture of respectful discourse and thoughtful argument included topics of theology and the Word, so the children learned to reason and evaluate their biblical ideas to the same extent as discussions of any other topic.

3. Are there lessons that we can learn and apply today from this extraordinary family?

Absolutely! While we live in a different era, there are timeless approaches to a home learning environment that are low cost and high impact that we can apply from the Bonhoeffer family. I think this biography’s description of Dietrich’s upbringing resonated so deeply with me, because it mirrors many of the education values I share through Thriving Little Thinkers:

High expectations are beneficial when they are paired with connection and the right amount of support. High expectations abounded in the Bonhoeffer family, but there was also love, respect, and humor. We know from modern day research that connection is critical for young children to feel safe and secure to learn grow and challenge themselves. They effectively “scaffolded” for their children; they created an optimal learning zone by building a loving, supportive family environment in which they knew their children and challenged them appropriately.
Parents are ultimately responsible for their child’s education in character AND academics. The Bonhoeffers did not relinquish spiritual training of their children to the church. They didn’t assume that the public schools were the best option available to them, nor did they rely only on homeschooling for the entirety of their children’s education. They thoughtfully considered their children’s needs and made decisions based on that, not on convenience. They made intentional choices about education opportunities.
Modeling is a crucial part of raising biblical, academic, and critical thinkers. The Bonhoeffers modeled great character and intellect. Not only did their parents model what they wanted for their children, the family was immersed in a community of extended family and friends that esteemed the values they taught their children. So not only were the parents modeling Christian living, moral values, and intellectual pursuits, other adults in their life were doing the same. While some might call it social pressure to perform, there is a great amount of neurophysiological and psychological evidence behind the draw to adapt to your given group or tribe. Truly, more is caught than taught.
Play is essential for raising focused, thriving little thinkers. It is beneficial for our children to become engrossed in a task–and the most typical flow experience for children is PLAY! The children’s play was described as intense and happened for long expanses of time. They had a rural summer home with no electricity where they spent time reading and “dug trenches and went for hikes in the vast pine woods to search for wild strawberries, onions, and mushrooms.” They performed plays in the evenings, ball games, guessing games, sang songs, and enjoyed nature. One home had an acre of gardens and grounds where they played, explored, planted, and even raised animals.
Raising thinkers doesn’t require you to break the bank. Some of the most high impact activities for building brains actually cost little to nothing. The Bonhoeffers climbed trees, played in the garden, read books, and performed their own plays. They didn’t have the “latest and greatest” of a learning toy or computer program. The children learned by exploration and play under the guidance of engaged adults.
Biblical thinking is tied to critical thinking and academic thinking. Dietrich and his family often discussed theology and biblical ideas about Christian living at the dinner table. Biblical thinking sees academic and critical thinking through a biblical lens–understanding that God gave us our brains and all forms of thinking as ways to know and love him better. While many people separate theology from education (rooted in our division of church and state funded educational programs), our theology and understanding of the gospel give meaning to our thoughts and the actions we take based on those thoughts.
- Academic thinking supports biblical thinking. Knowing how to read the bible, understand numbers, memorize and meditate on important biblical content, grasp historical context, understand translations–all of these require a basic academic foundation. Biblical literacy, gospel fluency, and memorizing scripture are necessarily tied to academic thinking skills. But academic thinking isn’t an end point.
- Critical thinking supports biblical thinking. “…Bonhoeffer was no mere academic. For him, ideas and beliefs were nothing if they did not relate to the world of reality outside one’s mind.” It’s one thing to read a text and it’s another thing to evaluate text, compare and contrast with cultural ideas, and apply that truth to today’s dilemma. “In our increasingly secular society, young people are exposed to a plethora of ideas that counter the truths of the Bible. They need critical thinking skills to discern falsehood and make reasoned arguments for their faith (2 Cor 10:5).” Sophia Auld. 1 Thessalonians 5:21-22 tells us to “Test all things; hold fast to what is good. Abstain from every form of evil.” So how do we “test all things?” By wisely comparing and contrasting the ideas of the world and the truths of God’s words.

A few caveats on context

I am NOT saying that every family needs to use the Bonhoeffer household as an ideal or checklist of how to raise successful children. I’m simply intrigued that the methods infusing their home life and education life were not at odds but each fueled the other and in turn the environment was rich, fertile soil for raising thinkers of great character.

There are a few caveats to the Bonhoeffer lifestyle, neither negative or positive, but context for understanding the learning environment:

They lived before the advancement of technology that so easily ransacks modern day households and derails focused attention or sustained thinking. Social media and internet use today in our homes is difficult to curtail for both adults and children. The result is a downward trend in our ability to focus well, a critical foundation for thinking well and solving problems. While it is still possible to create homes where our children’s focus isn’t derailed by shiny digital distractions, it is an added layer of parental consideration that the Bonhoeffers didn’t have to consider.
The household help included a governess, nursemaid, a housemaid, parlor maid, and cook. This likely provided Mrs. Bonhoeffer with more time to plan, educate, and guide the household culture. A household staff isn’t possible for most families I know, but it also doesn’t negate the high quality of the environment. The richness of learning described in their home can be done without a posse of helpers and it certainly doesn’t require immense wealth.
The Bonhoeffer children had impactful learning experiences beyond their childhood. As parents, I think it is important to remember that our children are heavily influenced by our investment in their home life but what they choose to do with it is beyond our grasp. It isn’t always feasible for us to take our school aged children overseas on an immersive cultural expedition or attend monthly arts performances when you’re on a tight budget. We can, however, light a fire of curiosity that propels them forward to create their own lifelong learning experiences. After leaving home, the Bonhoeffer children chose to pursue additional lifelong learning through travel, expansive reading, writing, interesting job opportunities, discussion groups, playing instruments, exposing themselves to culture through ballets, operas, plays, etc. These self-initiated opportunities undoubtedly impacted the great outcomes of their professional and personal lives.
And finally, the Bonhoeffers were immersed in a rich like-minded community of family and friends that esteemed the many of the same values they taught their children. Being immersed in a like minded community is possible today, but not always as common. For those involved in a local church this environment can be more easily attained, but in terms of valuing intellectual thought and high moral values, our post modern society can be very isolating indeed. It is difficult, but worth the effort to find a like minded community for yourself and your family.

Conclusion

Karl and Paula Bonhoeffer were parents strong in faith, intellect, and personal character. They had a strong marriage. They valued education not for vanity but for understanding. They valued discourse and evidence-based reasoning and decision making. They valued service to others. Most of all, they valued their family.

A strong marriage of two individuals of character can create a household that shapes the values AND intellect of its members.

References

Metaxas, E. (2010). Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy. Thomas Nelson Inc.

Auld, S. (2019). Critical and Creative Thinking: An Essential Skill for Every Student https://www.acc.edu.au/blog/critical-thinking-essential-skill/

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Homeschool in Under 1 Hour: Brain-Friendly Kindergarten Curriculum Picks^Featured

December 4, 2023

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There are a million ways to do Kindergarten. Public school, private school, university-model, co-op, distance learning, and more. We’ve decided on homeschool for our Kindergartener this year (which worked out well with the timing of our recent move). Schooling with 3 under 5 in an apartment is challenging, but it actually takes up less than an hour of our day and is a beautiful part of our family culture. And less than one hour a day?! This gives us immense freedom to explore, play, experiment, and enjoy our days together.

How do we get this done in under an hour?

Learning is all day in everyday life. “Doing school” for under an hour a day by no means limits our learning to that one hour! We are always learning. We work on building good habits, we cook, read loads of books, play board games, get as much outside play as we can, and constantly learn how to interact with others in loving, respectful ways. Education has been described as “… an atmosphere, a discipline, and a life” (Charlotte Mason, an education reformer). That means my children are constantly learning from the environment they are immersed in.
Quality over quantity. We prioritize our most important subjects: bible, reading, and math. Anything else we accomplish is just gravy! This helps us to prioritize focused attention to our main subjects rather than expect a long school session with multiple subjects for little brains with short attention spans. Being able to focus is an academic skill (and life skill) just as important as our core subjects.
School time is anytime. Formal “school time” for our Kindergartener can happen during naps, after the boys go to bed, or even on the go! Our gym offers a very generous childcare time, so occasionally I can finish my workout, pick up our Kindergartener early, and knock out a reading lesson in the cafe area before we pick up the boys. At home, school can look like coloring at the table next to us, or playing with bowls of rice and scoops on the floor, or sometimes participating with scaled down counting or sorting activities that apply to our work that day.
Family style learning (everyone participates). While formal lessons are reserved for our Kindergartener, we have a family style learning time when we all learn together, focused on the same content at the same time. Specifically, we utilize something called Morning Time. Morning Time is an intentional time when everyone in the family can come together and learn about specific priorities for your family. A typical Morning Time includes bible reading, hymns, and catechism. But it can expand to include the arts, read alouds, and any other subject that you want to start your day with.
- We use Brighter Day Press’s Morning Time curriculum that included the topics and resources I wanted for our family, was open and go (requires little to no prep), and adaptable to my kid’s ages. I highly recommend both Morning Time Volume I, or Volume II if you want to start Morning Time but you don’t know where to begin.

Kindergarten Curriculum Picks

I only use 3 specific tools for Kindergarten formal schooling: 1) All About Reading, 2) Secret Stories and 3). Right Start Math

All About Reading, Level 1 (20 minutes a day)

What it is: All About Reading (AAR) is phonics based, lightly scripted, highly visual, interactive reading program. It includes a Teacher’s Manual, student activity book, 3 texts filled with decodable stories, letter and sound cards, and letter tiles (or the letter tiles app).

Is it Brain Friendly? Check! AAR is a brain friendly reading program. It is multisensory, which means your student employs multiple senses during each lesson (hearing, sight, and touch) to enhance learning and improve retention. By activating different brain pathways, neural connections are strengthened and learning is deeply wired. As a researcher and educator with a neuro background, I love finding programs like this that tap into brain based learning principles.

What I love about it:

It’s not workbook centered. Workbook based phonics curriculums are great for fun extra work but they demand fine muscle coordination. Many 4 year olds and 5 year olds have not developed the fine motor skills necessary to do the pencil work necessary to complete handwriting assignments. Does that mean we don’t work on handwriting? By no means! We have a fun handwriting book that we use because my daughter is physically capable of correct pencil holding. But my 4 year old son? He listens and soaks up much of the phonics we review and will likely be capable of reading much sooner than he is able to write legibly. That’s okay! We will work on handwriting more extensively when it is developmentally appropriate.
It’s not just brain friendly, it’s EASY to follow. Once you’ve set up your activity pages, it is open and go! I first heard about AAR from April Stevenson at thefivegirlschoolhouse.com and @fivegirlschoolhouse on Instagram. She has saved stories about how she sets up her AAR binders of activity sheets so that they are easy and able to be re–used for multiple children. I followed her instructions on binder set up to the letter (pun intended).
The Teacher’s Manual is an easy to read, wealth of information. It includes specific tips, tricks, background information, and the “why” behind the lessons. The appendix includes lists of games, activities, snacks and rewards, and creative word play for even more reading fun.

The Secret Stories (combined with AAR)

“The teachers at my school can’t stop talking about Secret Stories“ my friend and elementary teacher raved. I had never heard of it before. I dug deeper into this program and the more I’ve learned, the more I want to share it!

What it is: “Secret Stories are the secret sounds that some letters make when they get together.” The Secret Stories are a brain-based phonics tool created by teacher Katie Gardener. It is not an independent phonics program–it is used as an adjunct to whatever reading program you choose.

There are many rules in the English language and many many many exceptions to the rules. Letters make one sound in this scenario, a different sound in this scenario, and wait, ANOTHER sound when they get together with this other letter. This leads to confusion and an emphasis on sight words rather than the decoding skills needed to master phonetic based reading. When your child asks “But WHY do those letters make that sound when they are next to each other?” Do you find yourself saying “They just do” and get frustrated at the arbitrary rules? The Secret Stories are a set of stories that explain all of these why’s.

Here’s an example:

“These two love to ride the train down the track, chugging along as they go- “CH-CH-CH-CH! CH-CH-CH-CH!” And that’s the sound they make (church, chin, chew)

BUT…sometimes they pretend to be the train conductor and make his hard C (or K) sound instead! (choir, schedule, ache)

Brain Friendly? Check! “Secret Stories® aligns phonics instruction with how our brains actually learn best, engaging more neural pathways for stronger learner connections and easier skill retrieval. Weaving abstract letter sounds into stories makes them interesting, activating the brain’s positive emotional state and hooking the information into a strong memory-holding template.” —Katie Gardener (Educator and creator of The Secret Stories)

What I love about it:

It fits seamlessly with many phonics based reading programs. We combine Secret Stories flashcards with our All About Reading Level 1 curriculum and love to point out the “secrets” we find while we work.
Visual cues. If it’s easy on the eyes, it’s easy on the brain. The flashcards and posters are a big part of The Secret Stories program, because they provide visual prompts for that letter combination. They can reference the visuals while reading and writing, giving them a big boost in competence, comprehension, and confidence.
The Facebook Support Group has FREE file uploads to help you incorporate the secret stories! Check it out here: Science of Reading meets Science of Learning with Secret Stories Phonics. The group is monitored by the creator Katie Gardener and is full of educators who share their experiences and ideas. We use a free version of the Word Collection Book, found in the files of the group, as a way for my kids to look out for “secrets” in the words they see every day. When they find it, we get their collection book, turn to the page for that particular secret, and then record the new word.

RightStart Math, Level A (20 minutes)

I learned about RightStart Math from a master’s prepared teacher at a homeschool development event. The talk was all about teaching math with an integrated and holistic approach. She taught at a rigorous school which mandated an older, established math curriculum (Saxon Math). She taught from Saxon, and her children who attended the school were also required to use it. But the part that grabbed my attention was that she personally supplemented her children’s math at home with RightStart Mathematics. Instead of “drowning in math worksheets” she and her boys played math games, made shapes, and had fun working their way through the concepts. As a professional educator, she wanted her own children to have RightStart.

What is it? An evidence-based, comprehensive math program that emphasizes visualization of quantities, discourages rote counting (simply reciting numbers in sequential order vs. determining quantity), and provides visual strategies (mental images) for memorizing math facts. Understanding is emphasized over completion. It focuses on chunking in base groups of 5 and 10, a hallmark of common core math education. It balances both conceptual teaching and procedural practice with a Montessori-like approach.

Brain Friendly? Check! Remember, If it’s easy on the eyes, it’s easy on the brain. Children (and adults) thrive on visual representation when learning new concepts. RightStart Math is heavily focused on visual representations and physical manipulatives to understand core math concepts. In fact, RightStart does NOT emphasize counting as a primary way of learning math. It heavily utilizes games for practicing math concepts and learning math facts which increase motivation and interest-led learning. RightStart also prioritizes problem solving. And, because it’s a multisensory program, it uses visuals, songs, and touching physical manipulatives to learn in a more holistic (and effective) way.

What I love about it:

It’s not workbook centered. I’ve already mentioned the developmental pitfalls of an early workbook focus (see above under All About Reading). RightStart Level A is a hands-on program, so it is not directly tied to a student’s ability to write. Since math is inherently practical and embedded in our everyday life, I want to provide a conceptual understanding and foundation first. Will we add more paperwork as we progress? Absolutely! And as the levels progress, RightStart incorporates more worksheets for review. But for beginners, particularly in Level A, it is an interactive approach.
It promotes independent thinking, a hallmark of raising a competent adult.
- The National Research Council published a report on the future of mathematics education called Everybody Counts. Here’s what they have to say about thinking and math: “More than most other school subjects, mathematics offers special opportunities for children to learn the power of thought as distinct from the power of authority. This is a very important lesson to learn, an essential step in the emergency of independent thinking.”
- Here is an example of this principle on pg. 3 of Level A:
  - “Place 3 objects on one tray and 2 objects on a second tray. Ask the child if she agrees that there are 3 objects on each tray. It is very important that the child feel free to disagree with you during math time. After a short discussion about the number of objects, add one more object and then ask her if she agrees that they now both have 3.”
It emphasizes games! “Games are to math as books are to reading” —Dr. Joan Cotter, creator of RightStart Math. There are math games incorporated into Level A AND a separate book of math games that many teachers have told me they utilize in their classrooms or homeschools. A plethora of research studies in the past two decades have highlighted the benefits of math games. Using math games to reinforce learning can:

Takeaway

Total time for “formal” academic work: 40 minutes a day. If we add in our Morning Time as a family, we reach 1 hour a day! Even if we add extras we can finish quickly and practice focusing well. I prefer homeschooling with a few, carefully chosen, evidence-based, high quality curriculums. We do occasionally supplement with fun add-ons, but our core subjects are laying a firm foundation for future work. In review, here are our core curriculums: 1) All about Reading, 2) Secret Stories, and 3) Right Start Math. Too add beauty and truth we add Morning Time. For fun handwriting work we use A Reason for Handwriting. These are supported by an everyday learning lifestyle.

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Struggle Stories: Using The Brain’s Love of Books to Build A Growth Mindset^Featured

August 1, 2023

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Do you want to teach your son to persevere through solving a problem?

Do you want your daughter to bounce back from setbacks?

Our brains love stories AND our brains loving having examples (i.e., models) to follow. This post explains the concept of struggle stories, a low cost & high impact tool for parents to build growth mindset in their children by using storybook characters to model resilience and perseverance.

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Takeaway

Struggle stories: a low cost & high impact idea for building resilience and perseverance

Using storybooks is a highly economical way to introduce and reinforce values (like resilience or perseverance) or mindsets (like growth mindset) to our children.

Many of these books are available through local public libraries, making access completely cost free for families.

Research shows that students with growth mindset, who believe that they can achieve through incremental persistent progress rather than talent, perform better than their counterparts with fixed mindsets across academic subjects.

But academics are only part of the picture–using struggle stories to build resilience helps prepare a child for the inevitable challenges that she will face in everyday life.

2. What is a struggle story?

In the Little House on the Prairie series, Laura Ingalls and her family overcome frigid winters, rushing waters, famine, and illness as they create a home and a life in the American pioneer era. In the Harry Potter books by J.K. Rowling, young Harry overcomes evil while facing manipulative adults, giant trolls, and significant peer bullying. In The Swiss Family Robinson, a family survives a shipwreck and learns to thrive on a remote island while facing wild animals, lack of resources, and even fighting off pirates.

Reading aloud stories like these to our children have profound benefits, even beyond neurochemical advantages. Stories with adventures like these don’t just capture the imagination–the characters exemplify a growth mindset. A growth mindset is a perspective that encourages persistence in incremental progress, no matter the starting point.

Modeling a growth mindset is important, especially from parents and caregivers who can display a living example of trying hard things and persistently moving forward. However, when personal models of growth mindset aren’t readily available in homes or in the classroom, storybooks that share tales of persistence to novel tasks can be readily used as narrative models at little to no cost (Hachigian, 2020).

In her recent dissertation at Columbia University, Amy Hachigian conducted a research study to determine if preschoolers could listen to storybooks (specifically struggle stories) and then demonstrate persistence on difficult tasks. Hachigian defined struggle stories as books that “demonstrate how sustained effort towards a difficult task and the use of multiple problem-solving strategies are essential to goal-achievement despite moments of set-back or failure.”

3. Can struggle stories help preschoolers increase persistence on difficult tasks?

Here’s how Hachigian conducted her research study:

She developed original struggle story books and read them to young children. Two groups of children participated: one group heard struggle stories and one group heard non-struggle stories.
For the group that heard struggle stories, some used roleplay to reinforce the learning and the others heard the reader provide specific praise for the character’s display of persistence.
Then, the researchers gave all participants challenging tasks (puzzles, search and finds, or shape sorters) and measured their time spent attempting to complete them (to measure persistence).

Her findings?

The children that showed significantly higher persistence on challenging tasks were the “...children who heard researchers praise characters throughout each reading of the struggle narratives…”

She did NOT find differences in persistence between the students who heard struggle stories vs. non-struggle stories. Further, roleplaying after hearing struggle stories was not an effective approach in this particular study. But something special happened when vicarious praise was used to reinforce perseverance while reading a struggle story.

Our brains follow models & keep what is reinforced

In the post Modeling How to Shape Brains & Behavior for Better, I mentioned the roles of observational learning and social learning theory. Essentially, these two theories support the use of struggle stories to teach children character values like persistence or resilience. Children observe what adults and peers are doing around them and they encode the behavior. But, some of the behavior is more likely to be encoded if it is reinforced. Reinforcement can be positive (i.e. praise, reward) or negative (i.e., critique, punishment).

The power of modeling and reinforcement means that parents (or characters in a narrative) can model desired behavior and can also reinforce the desired behavior. Even children at very young ages can “…learn messages from their environment and can generalize the value of persistence to novel tasks” (Hachigian, 2020).

There is a difference between praising the process and praising the outcome, though. If our desire is to build growth mindset, we want to highlight and praise the model’s incremental steps toward success despite failure, adversity, or hardship. We want to focus on and praised effort-based success, not an outcome. This is called process praise. For example, instead of saying “Good job” when your child showed you their castle of blocks, you could say “You worked hard to rebuild this several times.”

What about persistence with an impossible task?

An interesting caveat from Hachigian’s study: children showed demonstrated persistence on challenging tasks but NOT on a clearly impossible task. Children were given a shape sorter task in which a new shape presented could not possibly fit in the holes provided. Most participants correctly recognized this task as impossible and didn’t waste their efforts. This is an important consideration as we help our children to develop persistence. Fruitless persistence for an unattainable outcome is unproductive.

We want our children to persevere in finding a solution…when finding a solution is possible.

4. Try This!

Find struggle stories!
- Use your local library
  - Ask the children’s librarian to help you identify struggle stories that are age appropriate. Choose stories that involve a task or problem that your child can relate to (persistence in school, the sport they play, or instrument they are learning, etc.)
- Save time by downloading my FREE CURATED LIST OF STRUGGLE STORIES!
  - Use this list as a starting point for finding picture books AND chapter books you can read aloud to your children. It also includes a free quick guide about struggle stories and the best ways to use them!
Read the struggle story more than once!
- Repeated exposure (at least twice) to books increases vocabulary comprehension and aids content retention.
Verbally reinforce the growth mindset of the storybook character (process praise).
- As you read aloud, vicariously praise the efforts of the character in the story who tried multiple ways to solve hard problems or endured difficult circumstances (Hachigian, 2020). This reinforces the behavior of sustained effort despite difficulty.
  - “Wow, Harry didn’t give up even when he was scared.”
  - “Rosie was so persistent! She kept building even though she didn’t know how it would turn out.”
  - “I noticed that he tried four different ways to solve the problem.”
  - “I liked how Laura’s family kept trying, with good attitudes, even when things got hard.”
Ask your child open ended questions about the struggle story.
- Who was persistent in the story? Tell me more about that character.
- Why do you think they chose that solution?
- What kind of problems do you think the character will encounter?
- What kinds of tools could they use?
- What would you do in that situation?

6 Takeaway

In her dissertation study, Hachiagian concluded that struggle storybooks alone may not increase persistence. However, “…vicarious praise may play a critical role in how effectively children learn from struggle stories and, in turn, how children apply these learnings to situations where persistence is required to succeed.” (pg. 57-58, Hachigian, 2020).

Parents and teachers can consider using vicarious process praise, specifically focused on the efforts and problem solving of characters, while reading storybooks aloud.

Don’t use struggle stories as an isolated tool.

Model growth mindset at home, read struggle stories while praising persistence, and encourage failure as a stepping stone to success. These strategies collectively enhance the building of a growth mindset.

Grab the printable PDF BOOK LIST of curated struggle stories you can read and use, today!

Do you need more resources for helping your child build resilience and perseverance? Check out these related posts:

References

Bauer (2021). The Neuroscience of Storytelling. Neuroleadership.com https://neuroleadership.com/your-brain-at-work/the-neuroscience-of-storytelling/ Accessed 6_15_23

Hachigian (2020). Persisting Preschoolers: Using Storybooks to Increase Persistence on Difficult Tasks (a dissertation). Retrieved from: https://academiccommons.columbia.edu/doi/10.7916/d8-amkd-9p19

Growth Mindset: Helping Your Child Embrace Failure to Achieve Success^Featured

July 5, 2023

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“This is too hard!”

“I can’t.”

“Will you do it, please?”

Do these phrases sound familiar?

When facing challenges, some children seem devastated over a small setback. Others rebound quickly and tackle a problem with tenacity.

Why do children respond so differently to frustration? And how can we build up our children’s grit and resilience to handle the many problems they will face over the course of their lives?

This post explains growth mindset as a crucial part of building resilient thinkers and lifelong learners. Read on to find out what it is, what’s going on in the brain, and what you can do today to build up a growth mindset in your children.

Contents

Defining growth mindset and fixed mindset
What’s going on in the brain? (Under the hood)
What can parents do? (Try it Today)
Takeaway

1. What is growth mindset?

Our thoughts and self talk create mindsets about who we are and what we are capable of doing.

In the words of Henry Ford, “Whether you think you can or you can’t—you’re right.”

In 2006, Dr. Carol Dweck of Stanford University released her book Mindset (2006), detailing her research of children’s mindsets about intelligence. Essentially, she studied children’s views of intelligence as either a fixed trait that could not be changed or a quality that could be grown and improved. She coined these perspectives as either a 1) fixed mindset or 2) growth mindset.

A fixed mindset:

A fixed mindset sees intelligence or success as things you either have or you don’t. People with fixed mindsets fear failure, evade challenges, and avoid mistakes. (Pawlina & Stanford, 2011)
A person with a fixed mindset sees an obstacle in the road as an immovable barrier and may struggle to see the path around it.

A growth mindset:

The cornerstone of growth mindset is that intelligence is not something you are–intelligence is a quality that can be grown with hard work on challenging problems. It’s the idea that anyone can learn and grow no matter how much you know or whether or not you’ve been told you are “smart.” It’s a positive attitude toward effort and improvement toward learning, no matter the individual starting point (Dweck, 2008; Pawlina & Stanford, 2011; Ng, 2018; Goldberg, 2022; Shaw, 2022)
A person with a growth mindset sees a mistake as a challenge and opportunity.
A person with a growth mindset sees an obstacle in the road as a chance to forge a new path or create their own solution.
A student with a growth mindset views progress as
incremental, not instant.

A student with a fixed mindset may see themselves as “a math person” and another person as “not a math person.” or “I’m just not a good reader” and see another student as “naturally good at that.”

A student with a growth mindset doesn’t see themselves as “good” or “bad” at a particular academic subject. They see themselves as a learner who is always improving with incremental steps through focused effort. That simple shift in mindset can help a student with a growth mindset succeed across multiple subject areas or academic skills.

A student with a **growth mindset** views progress as
**incremental**, not instant.

According to Dweck, when you build a growth mindset in your child:

you build their ability to “bounce back” from setbacks
you teach them that incremental growth is how we learn across our entire lifetime
you embolden them to not fear failure
you give them vision to see mistakes as opportunities

Much of the research on growth mindsets in the last two decades have focused on student self reports or observations of student behavior. However, there are connections between growth mindset and what neuroscientists know about the brain’s structure and function.

2. What’s going on in your child’s brain?

If we were to lift up the hood and see what’s happening in your child’s brain…

…we would see different pathways throughout the brain that are created by learning and training experiences. Those pathways are strengthened (reinforced) through repeated practice, and infrequently used pathways aren’t prioritized and sometimes even pruned (removed).

Neurons (the cells that are the basic units/building blocks of the nervous system) are like the links in a chain that create the pathways in our minds. The reinforcement of frequently used neuronal pathways in the brain is easily summarized by this popular phrase:

Neurons that fire together, wire together.

This is called neuroplasticity–the brain’s ability to change and adapt. The brain isn’t a static organ that sits in your skull, unchanging, throughout your life. It changes its own internal structure by forming neural connections based on experiences with the environment around us.

So…what’s the connection? If a growth mindset is how we view our capacity to change and grow, and neuroplasticity is what is happening to our brains on a micro level…how are these two concepts linked?

Neuroplasticity enables a growth mindset.

Neuroplasticity, the changing structure and function of the pathways in our brains, provides a physical foundation for developing and expanding our cognitive abilities.

Your child’s brain is physically wired to change and adapt while learning from experience. And that means that your child, through their own mindset, can directly influence their personal learning and brain growth.

While it is possible and beneficial to develop growth mindsets in adulthood, young children and school aged children are in an especially fruitful season of brain development. Their changing brains are ripe for building mindset and expanding their cognitive capacities.

“During the first two and a half decades of life, the human brain is a construction site and learning processes direct its shaping through experience-dependent neuroplasticity.” (Goldberg, 2022)

What kind of experiences can construct growth mindset and take advantage of this developmental season of brain construction? Let’s talk about that next.

3. What can parents do? You can try this today:

You can build a growth mindset in your child by modeling it, teaching them about what their brain is capable of, and using the power of the word “yet.”

1. Model it! Mind your own mindset.

Your growth mindset as a parent (or lack thereof) has direct implications for your child’s views of mistakes and success. Research has shown that parents and teachers greatly influence student growth mindset and performance.
- Children see and follow. That means if you have a negative view of failure or you only look for instant results after one attempt at solving a problem, your children will follow in your footsteps. Likewise, if they see you persevere through challenges with focus, or learn a new skill through tiny baby steps of growth, they will follow.
- If you want to change your child’s outlook, change what they see—that starts with what they see in you as their parent.
Tell stories of your own ups and downs. This not only provides a model of resilience, the brain is wired for stories and uses narrative to file and retrieve information more easily.
Let your child see you make mistakes, or tell them about times when you’ve failed. But don’t stop there! Let them see you handle the mistake and move forward. Tell them not just about times that you failed, but how you were thinking and how you took action and tried again.

2. Brain Chat! Teach them what their brain can do.

Explaining your brain’s capacity to grow and change with experience and mistakes is crucial for building resilience and perseverance. It’s empowering for students to know that their brains are wired to learn, especially for children who have previously seen themselves in a fixed mindset. It can be a mind opening experience to demonstrate that each of their brains have capacity to build new and difficult skills.
“…inducing a growth mindset by teaching neuroplasticity has an overall positive effect on motivation, achievement, and brain activity.” (Sarasin et al., 2018).
For preschool and elementary aged students, the book Your Fantastic Elastic Brain is of my favorites for introducing the concept of brain based growth:

3. Say YET! Reframe struggles with one powerful word.

Reframing is a strategy for shifting a person’s perspective in a positive way. The goal is to provide your child with language that shifts negative or limiting self-talk to growth oriented views.
- You can change your own words to support a growth mindset, and you can directly challenge words of a fixed mindset in your child.
One of the easiest and simplest ways to reframe is to use the word yet.
- “If a student calls me over with a problem and says, “I can’t do this,” I make sure to reframe their initial statement to “I can’t do this…yet” before I help them. “ (Shaw, 2022)
- YET is a powerful word that communicates to your child that you are optimistic about their success in the future and it also doesn’t let your child back away from the problem altogether. Use the word YET along with your support and encouragement to help your child persevere through learning challenges.

4. Takeaways

Talk about struggles as a normal part of life and not things to be feared.

Building a growth mindset is a crucial skill for lifelong learning, because if your child can apply himself to anything with effort and practice, and stick with it, he can grow and learn. What skill could be more applicable for preparing him for the challenges of the future, and for everyday life?

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5. References

Carol Dweck (2008). Mindset: The New Psychology of Success.

Pawlina & Stanford (2011). Preschoolers Grow Their Brains: Shifting Mindsets for Greater Resiliency & Better Problem Solving. Young Children, Sept 2011 pg. 30-35 from the National Association for the Education of Young Children

Ng (2018) The Neuroscience of Growth Mindset and Intrinsic Motivation. Brain Sci. 2018 Feb; 8(2): 20 doi: 10.3390/brainsci8020020

Goldberg (2022). Growing Brains, Nurturing Minds–Neuroscience as an educational tool to support student’s development as lifelong learners. Brain Sci. 2022 12(12). https://doi.org/10.3390/brainsci12121622

Shaw (2022). Growth Mindset Pedagogy in the Classroom [Masterʼs thesis, Bethel University]. Spark Repository.

Deak (2010). Your Fantastic Elastic Brain: A Growth Mindset Book for Kids to Stretch & Shape Their Brains. Sourcebooks, Inc.

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5 Thinking Skills to Help Your Child Thrive in the Era of ChatGPT^Featured

May 1, 2023

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This post expands on part 1 chatGPT: A Practical Guide for Curious Parents, and explores 5 specific thinking skills needed to navigate ChatGPT with wisdom.

Are you a parent of young children? Have you been thinking “ChatGPT isn’t even on my radar. I don’t need to worry about that yet.“

Even if you have preschoolers or elementary aged children, this is a valuable post for you. There are simple, low cost, high impact ideas to build teachable thinking skills now that could improve their ability to navigate generative AI, later.
Check out the infographic for specific ways to teach these crucial thinking skills and adjust them to match your specific child’s age and capability.

Or…

Are you a parent of tweens or teens?

You may have heard about ChatGPT from your student’s school or teacher. Some middle school and high schools have banned this tech from their campuses and others have embraced it as part of the modern day classroom.
If you are already familiar with ChatGPT, read on and learn more about teachable thinking skills we can build up in our teens and tweens, whether they are currently using ChatGPT or not.
Are you worried about the content that chatGPT provides? Are you concerned about their ability to evaluate the information from chatbots and apply it? I created a student workbook that teaches the C.R.A.A.P. method, a way to evaluate output from ChatGPT while learning valuable critical thinking and analysis skills. It’s completely free and available here:

Contents:

In light of ChatGPT and its capabilities, do our kids still need thinking skills apart from AI?
What thinking skills are essential now, more than ever?
1. Executive functioning
2. Information literacy
3. Asking the right questions
4. Communication
5. Ethical thinking
How do we teach those skills?
1. Infographic
Takeaways
References

1. In light of ChatGPT and its capabilities, do our kids still need thinking skills apart from AI?

Are thinking skills obsolete?

I’ve heard an argument that our children won’t need to learn to do basic cognitive tasks, such as remembering, classifying, summarizing, interpreting, or even comparing or contrasting, because generative AI is capable. ChatGPT can tell you the right answers and formulate responses for you… so why teach our children those things?

I think this argument assumes 1) that the AI is capable of quality output every single time (which is already suspect¹) and 2) that the AI will always be readily accessible (high user volumes sometimes render the service unavailable, and paywalls may limit inclusion of varying socioeconomic groups).

But, for the sake of argument, even if generative AI can perform a function accurately and is easily accessible—does omitting the training of thinking skills benefit your child in any way?

Products vs. processes

Now more than ever, our children absolutely need thinking skills and the ability to communicate, apart from AI. They need the skills to navigate the digital world well.

Generative AI generates a product or outcome. Teaching our children to think means we are developing their thinking processes.

A reliance on generative AI can potentially lead to a decrease in thinking skills because it provides quick solutions and generates ideas without the user needing to engage in the cognitive processes that are involved in creating those solutions or ideas.

We aren’t training child robots capable of spitting out answers. We are cultivating minds with the ability to thoughtfully consider ideas and articulately respond.

The allure of a shortcut is certainly present, given the sheer number of ways we can access generative AI. But I don’t want my children to always choose the easy route with a chatbot. The reason and voice of chatGPT could potentially be helpful, but I don’t want it to replace their own.

2. What thinking skills are essential now, more than ever?

Executive functioning
Information literacy
Asking the right questions
Communication
Ethical thinking

Some overlap, but all are important for navigating digital experiences.

1. Executive Functioning

Executive functioning is a foundation for effective thinking skills–a set of underlying cognitive processes. Executive function involves regulating and controlling the other cognitive functions of the brain like attention, memory, self-control, or problem solving. Executive function is like an air traffic controller who is managing the coming and going of planes in multiple lanes at the same time.²

By regulating thoughts, emotions, and actions, students can focus on what they are learning. Generative AI like ChatGPT can provide a wealth of information and entertainment, making distraction almost effortless. Therefore, students need to develop the ability to stay focused on the task at hand and avoid getting sidetracked.

2. Information literacy

Information literacy is the ability to find, evaluate, and use information effectively. Information literacy isn’t just a thinking skill–it’s a life skill crucial for navigating the age of digital information as it becomes more and more difficult to differentiate between credible and non-credible sources.

Lack of information literacy skills can contribute to the spread of false information and can lead to poor decision making when there is inaccurate or incomplete information. Using low quality AI responses could lead to academic, professional, or personal consequences.

To practice this skill right away, download the free workbook Smart Kids Chat Smarter.

3. Asking the Right Questions

Asking the right questions is both an art and a foundational thinking skill. Asking the right questions involves identifying gaps in knowledge or understanding, and exploring different perspectives. The way a question is asked will determine what information ChatGPT provides.

You will get completely different answers from ChatGPT if you ask “What is a thinking skill?” vs. “What are the most important thinking skills that parents can teach their children and how can they do this in a low cost way?”

Which of those questions would provide you with the most useful information?

4. Communication

Communication, the way we share ideas with others, is both a thinking skill and a social skill. Our brains think of what we want to say and how to say it in ways that other people can understand.

It is easier than ever to replace communication with AI generated responses. ChatGPT is excellent when crafting an email, but will your teen be able to respond face to face in a verbal exchange with their supervisor at work? Communication is essential for success in all relationships, whether at home, school, play, or in the workforce.

If students are over reliant on AI to communicate for them, they may not develop and hone the skills needed to speak clearly and effectively on their own.

5. Ethical thinking

Ethical thinking is examination of values and beliefs and making decisions in line with those values and beliefs. Using AI with integrity will require consideration of complex ethical issues.

Students (and teachers) must recognize that their own values may not be reflected in ChatGPT or in the way other people utilize it. Without ethical thinking skills, students may not appreciate the responsibility for the content they generate with the help of chatGPT. They will also need to identify biases and stereotypes, and even respond to inappropriate or harmful information.

3. How do we teach these skills?

Use these tips as a starting point for building up cognitive elements like executive function and honing skills in information literacy, communication, asking the right questions, and thinking ethically.

You’ll notice that modeling, reflection, and exploration are key components of teaching any key thinking skills. For more on modeling, check out the post Modeling: How to Shape Brains & Behavior For Better.

4. Takeaways

There are ethical, moral, and philosophical implications for using generative AI and as it changes and its application spreads, our children need to be able to use it with integrity and skill.

ChatGPT should not be used to replace thinking skills, it should be used to enhance them.

In the era of ChatGPT, thinking skills are more important than ever. There is currently no research stating that chatGPT can reduce thinking skills in young students, because good research takes time, and there hasn’t been enough time since its release to conduct high quality research. However, like any technological tool, it’s the way in which it is used that has the greatest impact.

I’m hopeful that in the coming months and years, we will see research specifically exploring the benefits and risks of using generative AI, particularly in education. I’m hopeful that we will see research based “best practices” for using ChatGPT with young learners. I’m hopeful that we will see studies of ChatGPT’s impact on brain function that are longitudinal (observing the same participants and variables over a long period of time, sometimes for years).

I’m cautiously optimistic.

The way we interact with generative AI like ChatGPT is evolving and will be different a year from now.

But today, with the information available to me, I’m focusing on teaching thinking skills that can prepare my children for whatever ChatGPT has in store for us.

Looking for more?

Put these skills into practice right away with your middle or high school student by grabbing the free student workbook Smart Kids Chat Smarter that walks you the C.R.A.A.P. test for evaluating ChatGPT output.

References

Hsu & Thompson (2023). Disinformation researchers raise alarms about A.I. chatbots https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/08/technology/ai-chatbots-disinformation.html
InBrief: Executive Function (2012) https://developingchild.harvard.edu/resources/inbrief-executive-function/#:~:text=Executive%20function%20skills%20are%20important%20throughout%20life.&text=Positive%20Behaviors%E2%80%94Executive%20functions%20help,well%20as%20those%20of%20others.
Spiegel, et al. (2021) Relations between executive functions and academic outcomes in elementary school children: A meta-analysis. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2021-59065-001

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ChatGPT: A Practical Guide for Curious Parents^Featured

March 1, 2023

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The goal of this post is to 1) share cautious optimism about the use of chatGPT as a learning tool and 2) provide practical tools for curious parents who want to help their children navigate this new technology.

This is the first in a 2 part series about ChatGPT and generative AI. Check back May 1, 2023 to get Part 2 or sign up to get a link in your inbox when it’s released.

Let’s explore this ultramodern, hyped technology together…

Contents:

What is ChatGPT?
Why should parents care?
Is ChatGPT an educational tool that parents can use?
Takeaway: A logical approach to ChatGPT

1. What is ChatGPT?

Artificial intelligence (AI), the creation of intelligent computer programs using science and engineering¹ is not a new concept. It is the backbone of modern computing advances. Evolutions in AI capability have led to generative AI–computational models that produce “human like text” ² that is “convincingly fluent”³ and even images or videos.

Generative AI has been used predominantly in research or academic contexts.

Until, on November 30, 2022, when a California-based company named Open AI released something called chatGPT, initially free, for public use. ChatGPT is form of generative AI. It allows users to enter text prompts and receive responses in personal language.

It’s basically a conversational exchange of information between you (or your child) and an intelligent bot.

ChatGPT is one of the most powerful, largest language processing AI models the world has ever seen.²

Since its release, the world has been abuzz with both excitement… and concern. And similar products are being released from competitors around the world, in a vast array of applications.

Simply put, even though it isn’t the only form of generative AI, the public interest in and acceptance of chatGPT has changed things. We will see ripple effects of generative AI moving more swiftly across many different disciplines.

2. Why should parents care?

ChatGPT has implications for the structure of education, the creation of novel academic work, and academic integrity.

LIke chatGPT, generative AI is becoming more easily accessible. Understanding how it works and training students how to use it is important for parents, because as AIs role expands, students are highly likely to encounter programs like chatGPT any time they go online.

How we respond to questions or comments from our children about generative AI matters. Your knowledge of chatGPT and similar AI and the way you speak about it reflects your own thinking processes. Children take note of the thoughts and opinions of respected adults. This means as parents, we must watch our words and consider how we communicate with our children about this new technology.

ChatGPT is here to stay. How do parents move forward?

By learning basic information about what chatGPT is and how to use it intentionally, parents can mitigate fear and demonstrate curiosity.

A lack of knowledge can sometimes lead to fear. Fear of the unknown can lead to controlling behavior to minimize a perceived threat. For a parent who is unfamiliar with generative AI and only sees news articles with polarizing descriptions about the potential malicious uses of new tech, there may be a temptation to deny its existence or control every aspect of its use.

As a parent, you can’t control the algorithm that directs a chatbot. But, you can prepare the child who is going to use it, by exploring it together and teaching them strategies to use it wisely and successfully.

3. Is chatGPT an educational tool that parents can use?

Yes…with caution and oversight.

One of the reasons for the massive reaction and excitement for chatGPT is because of its expansive utility. It is a clever and useful tool. “History has shown us that when used appropriately and with discretion, technologies generally enhance education rather than detract from it”(emphasis mine)^.4

Here are a few of the many ways it can be used in education:

Ask the right questions
- When working with chatGPT or similar AI, the prompt given by the user initiates the entire conversation. So working with chatGPT is a great way to introduce the importance of asking great questions, and determining how to frame the prompt.
Introduce information literacy
- Practice the ability to evaluate the quality of information provided by chatGPT. (Here’s a free guide to helping your child do just that)
Find out more
- Use chatGPT to dive deeper into a topic that you already have some familiarity with and see if it provides new insights or novel resources you haven’t previously considered
Spark a flame
- Use chatGPT to explore a novel topic your child or student is interested in

So yes, chatGPT is a tool. BUT…some tools are dangerous if you put them in the hands of a novice.

A scalpel in the hands of a surgeon can carve out cancer and change someone’s life. A scalpel in the hands of a toddler could lead to danger and injury. A hammer wielded by a carpenter can create a work of art. A hammer in the hands of a novice with no guidance isn’t going to produce a quality outcome and will probably cause frustration and confusion.

And, a tool is only helpful if it is suited to your task. A hammer isn’t the best choice if you need a screwdriver or a chainsaw. ChatGPT is a tool, but it may not be useful if it doesn’t bring value to you (or your child’s) particular work.

Amidst the frenzy over chatGPT, there are also many concerns. Here are a few to consider:

Misinformation
- There is no guarantee that the information provided by generative AI is accurate, because it pulls from potentially inaccurate internet sources. The human-like tone and plausible response can lead to a tendency to believe the information provided, whether it is actually true or not.
Bias
- Generative AI has produced racial, political, and gender bias in responses.⁵
- ChatGPT’s training data is “likely to encompass the entirety of the web” which includes inherent biases from authors and content creators because all humans are biased.
- While all learning processes are susceptible to bias, there is concern for the algorithms behind generative AI and their potential for programmed bias. There is a push for OpenAI to make their programming transparent for ethical oversight to mitigate this risk.
Plagiarism
- There are currently no references in the responses of chatGPT, and the program’s parent company and others are working to generate new software to detect text generated by AI. There are concerns for academic integrity and the ability of students to find workarounds to assignments using chatGPT. Some schools are banning chatGPT from campus and others are embracing it as part of the modern classroom environment.

Given the potential problems with chatGPT, along with its numerous uses, parents would be wise to approach the conversations about this tool with both curiosity and caution.

In his book Digital Minimalism, computer scientist Cal Newport describes a common sense approach to “decide what [digital] tools to use, for what purposes, and under what conditions.“⁶ He states “Technology is intrinsically neither good nor bad.” Technology is a tool. This way of thinking “…is not a rejection of technology or a reactionary act of skepticism; it is, by contrast, an embrace of the immense value these new tools can offer…if we’re willing to do the hard work of figuring out how to best leverage them on behalf of the things we truly care about.“⁷

4. Takeaways: A logical approach to ChatGPT

If you are a parent who is unfamiliar with ChatGPT, here are some things to thoughtfully consider as you explore new tech:

Model curiosity and wisdom as you learn about ChatGPT and process questions with your child.
- Ask questions and start a dialogue. (Want an easy to follow discussion guide? Click here for a list of questions parents can print and use to chat about chatGPT)
Do not parent out of fear. Watch your words.
- When you read about ChatGPT in the news or hear about it from friends or family, take notes of what words they choose to describe it. Pay special attention to polarized thinking (the use of all or nothing or black and white thinking) or fear based language. Polarized thinking labels concepts as all good or all bad. In reality, there are usually shades of gray when evaluating something new. If you only say that it’s the best thing since sliced bread, or in contrast, completely ban it from your household, then you are modeling and promoting polarized thinking.
Set up structured learning experiences to foster experimentation with ChatGPT for you and your child in a hands on-way.
- Whether it’s sparking the flame of a new academic interest, learning the art of asking great questions, or evaluating the quality of information that AI provides, there are ways to use ChatGPT intentionally and productively.

Summary

Parents can approach chatGPT with cautious optimism as they commit to learning more about this new and popular tool.
There are both benefits and concerns to using generative AI.
Start an open ended conversation with your student about chatGPT and how they can use it with integrity. Use the printable discussion guide to get started.
Evaluate the output of ChatGPT for accuracy and quality. Use the free student workbook and the C.R.A.A.P. method of analysis to evaluate output from ChatGPT.

References

IBM. What is artifical intelligence (AI)? https://www.ibm.com/topics/artificial-intelligence
Browne (2023). All you need to know about chatGPT, the A.I. chatbot that’s got the world talking and tech giants crashing. https://www.cnbc.com/2023/02/08/what-is-chatgpt-viral-ai-chatbot-at-heart-of-microsoft-google-fight.html
Stokel-Walker & Van Noorden (2023). What chatGPT and generative AI mean for science. https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-023-00340-6
Cohen (2023). Leveraging chatGPT: Practical ideas for educators. https://www.ascd.org/blogs/leveraging-chatgpt-practical-ideas-for-educators?_hsenc=p2ANqtz–dWq-Chy-si5Ti9X2J3aXEI3gZ8BgsHN5JGmernXAw1Bwu8-Nc3x5fGDgHCYqIv1lys3xdsVlacIWViTeohQ0M3vbklw&_hsmi=243344900
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You have an overwhelming number of choices when investing in toys for the children in your life. How do you go about choosing a toy that will help them think or grow, not just entertainment them? How do you determine which toys are worth the price tag and which sets you should confidently walk by?

5 ways LEGO® bricks promote learning
LEGO® bricks are a high value toy
Ways to invest in LEGO® bricks
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If you have bins of LEGO® bricks stashed away in your attic or garage, it’s time to bring them out.

LEGO® bricks are basically indestructible, painful to step on, and a household name that most parents are familiar with. This line of plastic building blocks consists of varying colors and pieces that interlock to create objects such as buildings, vehicles, characters, robots, and more.

A unique feature of these bricks is versatility as both a fun toy and as multifunctional educational tool.

5 Ways LEGO® Bricks Promote Learning

1. Foster Creativity. The open ended nature of LEGO® bricks allows infinite combinations, providing limitless possibilities for play.

Children can generate new ideas and create their own objects, characters, world, etc.
Using LEGO® toys, children can extend their imagination into physical play by taking their ideas and creating real, tangible models they can then transform and modify.

2. Follow Logical Instructions. LEGO® sets and systems come with building instructions that incorporate the parts and allow them to follow a predetermined model.

The process of building with these manuals is a practical life skill that can be applied in any assembly that requires instructions.
Learning to use a systematic approach to an activity or problem is a foundation for using other systematic thinking strategies. For example, students comfortable following a series of predetermined stages are better prepared for following the logical steps of the scientific method.

3. Build STEM Skills. And speaking of the scientific method…STEM (science, technology, engineering, and math) learning is a high priority for modern education, given job demand in these areas that continues to grow. As demand for skills in STEM areas increases, toys that introduce these skills are highly valuable.

The traditional LEGO® systems already use “fundamental skills related to STEM–building, problem solving, and pattern recognition“¹
Recently, the LEGO® application to STEM fields has expanded to include hands on coding skills. New robotics kits² area available, in progressively challenging levels, allowing children to grow familiar with the combination of coding and play while incorporating the original colorful blocks they are already familiar with.

4. Learning through Story. Our brains are wired for stories–stories are easy for us to remember and they help make learning more effective. Information is more easily retained and retrieved when it is shared through a story³. Many sets are based on familiar themes: favorite cartoons, comic book characters, Disney princesses, beloved books and movies, video game stars, familiar villians…

When a LEGO® structure is related to a familiar story, a child can link their physical play to that story and cement related concepts.
Bricks can be used to learn narrative structure⁴ and sequencing of events.
LEGO® toys can also aid children in the creation of their own original stories. Writing activities with LEGO® pieces could include prompts about a particular LEGO® minifigure, the creation of a storyboard, or even writing an original instruction booklet for their novel brick creation.

5. Add Tactile Learning to Any Subject. The versatility of LEGO® bricks allows them to be incorporated into any subject or unit study^⁵, giving little fingers a way to physically engage with the topic. LEGO® toys are also an ideal hands-on activity during read alouds at home or in the classroom. Here are a few ideas on adding LEGO® bricks to any subject:

Bible Study: Create a scene from a favorite bible story.
History: While reviewing a history concept, build a related historic structure. You could construct a Roman coliseum while you review Latin terms or read about the Roman empire.
Math: Use individual bricks as manipulatives for math lessons. Have younger children sort by colors, sizes, or shapes. Measure your creations and record your findings. Duplicate patterns.
Science: Introduce coding and programming technology. Physics principles applied during construction of a LEGO® building can introduce and reinforce engineering principles.
Reading or Language Arts: Build words together brick by brick. Put letters on the individual bricks and let the children assemble. Use minifigures as writing prompts or have the children create their own instruction manuals.

LEGO® Bricks are High Value

One of the goals of Thriving Little Thinkers is to share strategies that are low cost and high impact. LEGO® bricks and sets are not low cost, but they are high value and high impact tools.

Children (and adults) can use them to create and then take their object apart and build new things, again and again and again and again. Not only can LEGO® bricks be reused for play, they physically last and can often be resold for what they were purchased for, and sometimes for a profit⁶ if a collectible is involved.

Purchasing LEGO® toys for full price can be an expense. However, in terms of the cost for investment, purchasing LEGO® products is a win. They are one of the most unlimited open ended toy collections on the market. Their versatility, durability, reusability, popularity, and likelihood of high resale price, offset upfront costs in terms of value.

There are many ways to invest in LEGO® toys in a low cost way.

Ways to Invest in LEGO® toys at a Lower Cost:

Buy used. Consider an online marketplace for secondhand sets. Ask family and friends if they have unused bricks and purchase from them. Remember that you can resell your own bricks as well due to their lasting value.
Utilize free brick tables at your local library, bookstore, or children’s museum. Many local libraries have LEGO® tables and supplies in the children’s department that can be used for free! Our local library carries shelves of books about LEGO® toys with ideas for builds, links to educational topics such as math or history, and even instruction manuals.
Incentivize. Use LEGO® toys as a special incentive to reward an accomplishment or behavior, such as completing a book series or meeting a goal.
Teach money skills. Have your child save their money and purchase their own LEGO® toys to reinforce financial responsibility and the importance of work and savings.
Utilize wishlists. Add LEGO® toys to wishlists for birthdays,or holidays so that family or friends can help build your child’s collection.
Sign up for a free LEGO® magazine subscription or download free PDFs of previous issues!

Takeaway: LEGO® bricks and sets are high value and high impact toys with educational benefits. LEGO® bricks are learning tools!

Initial investment costs can be lowered by using nearby resources and purchasing preowned sets. Find free bricks at your local library, bookstore, community center, or children’s museum.

Parents can utilize LEGO® toys for play at home to: foster creativity, follow logical insructions, build STEM skills, complement learning through story, and use bricks in any topic of study.

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References

1. Chen, 2019. Coding Through Play: How LEGO® is evolving to address the educational needs of young STEM learners today

2. Robots for Kids

3. Willis, 2017. Neuroscience of Narrative and Memory

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